Finally discovered my type(what women want)
Lately I have been a frequenter at weddings. And for once I listen to those vows over and over again. To forsake all others etc doesn't sound easy. And sometimes you go to a wedding of someone whom you had a little something going on and you see the bride or groom for the guys, and you understand why it would have never worked with you, because of that eye thing, how they look at each other, how they smile at each other, would you have looked at him or her the same way, the answer will probably be no. They are like a perfect block that fits in to another. So then you learn in as much as most people are great, not everyone is great for you, everyone has that one eye candy, so I endeavored to describe my eye candy, my type. The one who is like my other wing without which I cant fly.
I think it was cute how ladies in traditional days were picked when going to the well by strong men who were in love with them. I thought it was an action of strength. You know that thought that you were fought for, your love was won over time from the time you resisted until you came to terms with it and fall in love deeply. I call it loving desperately. Like the man who fell in love with Ihuoma in concubine the novel, oh oh oh, that got me.
I am a romantic, the kind who would love to write poetry about love, the kind who loves to dance in the rain, the candle lit dinner type for staring in to each others eyes, the kind who could even elope in the name of love, sometimes I think I may volunteer to sing on my wedding day, or dance,lol and if I dont do it I may make loud hints to the groom to do so.
But so it has seemed to me that I was born in the unromantic generation,so I am abit abit lost ish, the generation that says "si we unanilike na mi nakulike so tunalikiana", and "give me everything tonight", there is no a step at time, it kills it, for real.
Am sure every girl has been told they are loved on the first day of being met by a random stranger, it was shocking at first, as in your eyes could drop, not shocking anymore when you realize its a habit even worse someone invites you to his house to watch a movie,lol, kumbe they want to pounce on you. or you go to a party and you find out you are the party, It has become a joke right, it has become a dubious generation. Sometimes I feel like we should start a campaign "let us save love"
After getting past days of confusion, guilty. a girl can get many proposals, woi woi woi, and before the time you know where you heart belongs, you may find your heart in arms of people who don't know what to do with it, or you hurt people because you don't know what you want yet, so thats where lists comes in, to save you from miserable dates, traps and schemes and also to prevent wasting others time.
A girl wants someone they can trust,depend on, a best friend whom they can talk for hours and laugh about anything, crying about issues, someone who will choose them over any other at any time and would fight to win her heart because they know they are worth it. and after he wins it, he keeps it safe so that no one takes it, and prevents it from hurt because he knows my girl is delicate I need to protect her from heart break. A man who will not only call her hot but also call her beautiful because he has taken time to know her soul, a man who will be able to provide not just for her but for her children as well and a woman can proudly say thats my man, a man who can make her laugh and allows the woman to be a real helper and even when she is a helper, she needs to feel that she is the queen of his heart, and she is loved desperately, a woman can submit to this man, a woman can devote her whole life to this man and forsake all others. A woman can say I do to this man because he has proven worthy of her love. A woman can wake up and want to clean his house and Its true a woman loves for real, the kind that can even be embarrassing, she can quit her job to be with a man who loves her desperately. And when you find a woman worth doing this for, you save yourself drama, because when you find her "you realize why it never worked with anyone else" and you gladly say now i know my type, I have found my match and I will and that what we mean when we say a man is a keeper
Its not about the doors, its not about the flowers, and though its not an obligation, these make a woman feel appreciated, yes, but again when it doesn't come out from the heart with love and respect, it looses its point and meaning.
Couples are made in heaven like "eyes they blink together", they are like the other wing without which the other wing can't fly. And when they stare in to each their eyes light, even when one enters a room. how they smile because one has said a joke, usually everyone else doesnt think its funny but you. Now that is worth waiting for. Extra ordinary, taintless but pure love in a world of chaos and deception. At least before the both of you become baba nani and mama nani, thats what it should feel like, romantic, exiting, one to look forward to
I think it was cute how ladies in traditional days were picked when going to the well by strong men who were in love with them. I thought it was an action of strength. You know that thought that you were fought for, your love was won over time from the time you resisted until you came to terms with it and fall in love deeply. I call it loving desperately. Like the man who fell in love with Ihuoma in concubine the novel, oh oh oh, that got me.
I am a romantic, the kind who would love to write poetry about love, the kind who loves to dance in the rain, the candle lit dinner type for staring in to each others eyes, the kind who could even elope in the name of love, sometimes I think I may volunteer to sing on my wedding day, or dance,lol and if I dont do it I may make loud hints to the groom to do so.
But so it has seemed to me that I was born in the unromantic generation,so I am abit abit lost ish, the generation that says "si we unanilike na mi nakulike so tunalikiana", and "give me everything tonight", there is no a step at time, it kills it, for real.
Am sure every girl has been told they are loved on the first day of being met by a random stranger, it was shocking at first, as in your eyes could drop, not shocking anymore when you realize its a habit even worse someone invites you to his house to watch a movie,lol, kumbe they want to pounce on you. or you go to a party and you find out you are the party, It has become a joke right, it has become a dubious generation. Sometimes I feel like we should start a campaign "let us save love"
After getting past days of confusion, guilty. a girl can get many proposals, woi woi woi, and before the time you know where you heart belongs, you may find your heart in arms of people who don't know what to do with it, or you hurt people because you don't know what you want yet, so thats where lists comes in, to save you from miserable dates, traps and schemes and also to prevent wasting others time.
A girl wants someone they can trust,depend on, a best friend whom they can talk for hours and laugh about anything, crying about issues, someone who will choose them over any other at any time and would fight to win her heart because they know they are worth it. and after he wins it, he keeps it safe so that no one takes it, and prevents it from hurt because he knows my girl is delicate I need to protect her from heart break. A man who will not only call her hot but also call her beautiful because he has taken time to know her soul, a man who will be able to provide not just for her but for her children as well and a woman can proudly say thats my man, a man who can make her laugh and allows the woman to be a real helper and even when she is a helper, she needs to feel that she is the queen of his heart, and she is loved desperately, a woman can submit to this man, a woman can devote her whole life to this man and forsake all others. A woman can say I do to this man because he has proven worthy of her love. A woman can wake up and want to clean his house and Its true a woman loves for real, the kind that can even be embarrassing, she can quit her job to be with a man who loves her desperately. And when you find a woman worth doing this for, you save yourself drama, because when you find her "you realize why it never worked with anyone else" and you gladly say now i know my type, I have found my match and I will and that what we mean when we say a man is a keeper
Its not about the doors, its not about the flowers, and though its not an obligation, these make a woman feel appreciated, yes, but again when it doesn't come out from the heart with love and respect, it looses its point and meaning.
Couples are made in heaven like "eyes they blink together", they are like the other wing without which the other wing can't fly. And when they stare in to each their eyes light, even when one enters a room. how they smile because one has said a joke, usually everyone else doesnt think its funny but you. Now that is worth waiting for. Extra ordinary, taintless but pure love in a world of chaos and deception. At least before the both of you become baba nani and mama nani, thats what it should feel like, romantic, exiting, one to look forward to
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lakini enyewe our generation needs to improve
Great post. So true :)